Surrendering to God (allowing him to guide you) does NOT mean you are weak, naive, dumb or gullible. Surrendering to God, a force you can't see or touch, yet you believe in PROVES just how STRONG you truly ARE!!!
At the end of your time on earth these things will NOT mater:
1. How you look 2. What kind of clothing you buy & wear 3. What your job title was 4. How many cars you owned 5. What size house you owned 6. How much is in your bank account 7. The area in which you lived 8. How many balls or parties you were invited to 9. If you were the BEST (in Anything) 10. How much money you gave to the homeless man